April 24, 1960 – August 2, 2010
Lori earned a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Secretarial and Administrative Skills at Ryerson and worked at Campbells Soup, Effem Foods, CIBA Vision, temped at Husky and ended her career at Peel District School Board working with Patrika Daws, Diane Shaw, Pauline Barkley and the wonderful teachers at Calderstone Middle School.
The family is sad to announce the passing of Lori McArthur at Bethell House, Inglewood. Born at Mt. Sinai Hospital, Toronto, to Professor William and Marilyn (nee Perry) Slessor, Bolton. In June 1982, Lori met the love of her life Glen McArthur and they married in September 1986. Lori and Glen lived a loving and happy life together in Bolton. Lori will be missed by her beloved family, sons Geoffrey, Michael and David McArthur, at home; her brother Stuart and his wife Susan Slessor, Innisfil and extended family Don and Grace McArthur, Etobicoke; Graydon and Gail McArthur, Etobicoke; and Laurie Kukulewich, North York. Over her 50 years, Lori had many close friends and will be missed by her maid of honour Debbie Mountain (nee Burton), Dave and Cindy MacDonald, Jan White, Sherry Brioschi, Lori Bridgeman, Cathy Lawrence, Rick and Shelley Jones, Mark and Lori Unger, along with her loving Aunt Judy and Uncle Verne Johnson and cousins and friends. Thanks goes out to the wonderful staff and volunteers at Bethell House, her friends and associates at Calderstone Middle School, Brampton, Brampton Fire Emergency Services, Dr. Milan Kacer and Dr. Kate Wharton and our neighbours for all their support. Lori fund-raised for the Kidney Foundation, Member of the Caledon East Baptist Bible Club and a parent committee member for the Snowy Owl Air Cadets, Brampton. Lori’s passion was traveling and her favourite places included Disney World and RVing in Vermont. Lori adored all her three sons, Geoffrey, Michael and David.
The family will receive their friends at the Egan Funeral Home, 203 Queen Street S. (Hwy. 50), Bolton (905-857-2213), on Monday, August 9 from noon until her celebration of life service in the chapel at 2 o’clock. Followed by cremation.
If desired, memorial donations may be made to Bethell House Hospice, P.O. Box 75, Inglewood L7C 3L6. Condolences for the family may be offered at www.EganFuneralHome.com
Rob, Cheryl, Ryan & Courtney Briggs
Glen, So sorry to hear about Lori. Our thoughts & prayers are with you and your boys.
Lori & Steven Bridgman
Glen, Geoffrey, Michael & David, our thoughts and prayers are with you all and the rest of your family. Remember that although Lori is no longer with you physically, she will always be in your hearts and she will always watch over you.
Nat, Sherry, Nat jr and Corey Brisochi
Glen, Geoffrey, David and Michael:
We are deeply saddened by the loss of your wife and mother. Lori was a very caring, lovable and determined person. Take these characteristics of Lori and your Mom, hold on to them, no matter what life brings you.
We love you all and are there for all of you.
Our prayers are with all of you.
Love and Blessings
Nat, Sherry, Nat Jr. and Corey.
David, Jackie, Sarah & Zachary Mielke
Glen, Geoffrey, Michael & David:
Our deepest condolences. We are saddened to learn of your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
With Sympathy,
Jackie, David, Sarah & Zachary Mielke
Peggy Jarvis
Dear Glen, Geoffrey, David and Michael,
I was so saddened to hear of Lori’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time.
I will always remember Lori for all the joy and laughter and goodness she brought to Calderstone.
She and I enjoyed sharing so many stories about our boys and their love of music. Keep the music playing as I know your mom will be listening and cheering you on from above.
I know her bright light and beautiful smile will always be shining.
Love, Peggy
Patti Foley
Glen, Geoff, Mike and David
Condolences from our family to yours. Lori is now at peace and it is wonderful that you could be at her side in her final moments. If we can do anything to help the burden over the next week please let us know.
Liz Boily
Dear Glen and the boys, It was my pleasure to know Lori both at the twins club and then later as we worked together at Lancaster. She was a loving and caring person. my thoughts are with you all
Marttinen/Mielke
Mr. McArthur, Geoffrey, David, and Michael;
We were so sorry to hear about Mrs. McArthur. You remain in our thoughts and prayers.
We are so very sorry for your loss.
Ali, Aaron, Tom, and Susan
Elaine Craig and Deanna Barker
We were so saddened and shocked to hear of Lori’s passing. It was a pleasure knowing her as a firefighter’s wife, and mother. She was passionate about her boys, and always had a smile and offer of advice. She handled her illness with such optimism and grace, that will forever leave an impression on us. She was patient, caring, devoted and always interested in other people’s lives. She will be missed amongst our circle of firefighters.
Geoffrey, David and Michael, these are not easy roads ahead of you but have confidence that she will be watching over you. Keep her proud! Our doors are always open to you.
With Sympathy,
Craig, Elaine and Deanna Barker
Diane Shaw
Dear Glen, Geoffrey, David and Michael:
I had the wonderful pleasure of working with Lori since we worked together to open Calderstone school. I was constantly amazed at her ability to make visitors and students feel at ease, welcomed, and always made them feel they were her main priority at any given time. She made us smile with her stories, always with a note of humour, about her family and how she was so proud of her boys and their accomplishments. I will miss her warm and smiling personality.
Love, Diane
Laurie, Rachel and John Ryan
Dear Glen, Geoffrey, David and Michael,
You have been so blessed, with the endearing love and devotion that Lori gave to each of you. She will always be watching over you as you continue your journeys through life. Keep her proud.
Your family and friends are here for you. We love you.
Bill and Betty Vent
Dear Glen,Geoffrey, David and MIchael,
Please accept our heartfelt sympathy on the passing of Lori. Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this very difficult time.
Bill and Betty
albert plowright
Glen and sons–so sorry for your loss–our thoughts are with you and your Mom and Dad thinking of you all
Al and Judy plowright
Raymond Stewart
I am deeply saddened by the news of Lori’s passing. Her wonderful smile, warmth, and sense of humor will be missed dearly.
I extend my deepest sympathy to Lori’s family at this time of loss.
Raymond Stewart
Parm Bhatthal
Dear Glen, Geoffrey, David and Michael
I am very saddenend to hear of Lori’s passing. My deepest heart felt condolences to you and your family. Lori had care and warmth for everyone she worked with. Her caring for students, her smile in the office will be missed by all of us. We will always remember the great energy and loving laughter she brought to all of us.
Parm Bhatthal
Parm Bhatthal
I am very saddenend to hear of Lori’s passing. My deepest heart felt condolences to you and your family. Lori had care and warmth for everyone she worked with. Her caring for students, her smile in the office will be missed by all of us. We will always remember the great energy and loving laughter she brought to all of us.
Parm Bhatthal
Geeta Karamchandani
Dear Glen, Geoffrey, David and Michael – It was a great pleasure working with Lori at Calderstone. I missed her from the very first day I left Calderstone. She was always full of humour and proud of her boys and I am sure her boys will keep up to her expectations. I shall always miss her. Love, Geeta
Cathy De Rubeis
Dear Glen, Geoffrey, David and Michael,
I am so sorry for your loss. Lori was a wonderful person filled with good humour and a winning smile who could put all who met her at ease.
Lori was my lunchtime walking partner at Calderstone. Either she or I would remind the other to put aside whatever priorities seemed pressing, put on our running shoes and take a quick 20 minute walk around the neighbourhood whatever the weather might be. I valued Lori’s advice to me during those walks as well as the amusing family anecdotes she shared. She was proud to share your successes. I will miss her.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family,
Cathy De Rubeis
Gail Mcarthur
Dear Glen, Geoffrey, David and Michael
Lori will always be in our hearts and memories. She was a wonderful wife, mother. sister-in-law and aunt. She was very much loved by all of us. She offered everyone her love and compassionate smile. We will miss her but know she is watching over us all. We are there for you all.
Graydon, Gail, Mark, Allison, Paul, Catherine and Scott with love
Harkiran Garcha
Dear Glen, Geoffrey, David and Michael
I am so sorry for the loss of Lori, I had the priviledge to work with Lori for many years. She was the best secretary one could ask for, she was always so patient, and was so eager to help in anyway that she could. Her smile and laughter will be missed at Calderstone.
My thoughts and prayers are with you as you go through this tough time.
Harkiran Garcha
Jan Dan Chris and Kevin Foley
Dear Glen Geoffrey David and Michael Our deepest condolences Our thoughts are with all of you in this difficult time . With sympathy
Dan Jan Chris and Kevin Foley
Brampton Professional Fire Fighters Association
Glen, Geoffrey, David and Michael
We are all saddened by your loss. Our thoughts are with you all.
With Sympathy from all your friends at Brampton Fire
Kevin & Barbara Furlong
Dear Glen & Family:
My wife and I send our deepest condolences for you and your families loss. Try and remember that they are never gone, but have changed addresses for a brief period to get a better residence for you all to be together again. Glen, my brother said he had spoken to you recently and had told him about your wife and her illness. May God give you all peace and bring comfort to you all at this time.
God Bless
Kevin Furlong
Kiba Moy
Dear Glen Geoffrey David and Michael,
I am very sorry for the loss of Lori. I had the privelege to work with her since Darcel Ave PS and lastly at Calderstone MS. I will always remember her with her nice smile.
My thoughts are with you all.
Mr. Moy
Marti Kellough
I can’t tell you how shocked and saddened I am to hear of this news. Lori was a great lady, one of the kindest and gentlest woman I ever met, I feel so fortunate to have known and worked with her, I will always remember how proudly she spoke of her wonderful family. She was so very proud of all of you. Please accept my deepest sympathy. A coworker from Husky… Marti Kellough
Leslie Hawkshaw and family
Dear Glen, Geoffrey, David and Michael,
Our deepest condolences to all of you. Lori was a wonderful friend to me. I shall always remember our times at Ryerson especially our “tea and croissant” breaks. Her smile and sense of humour I will cherish and deeply miss. Although we did not see each other as often as we would have liked, the times we did were always special. She was very proud of her family and loved you all dearly. Her spirit will remain in all our hearts.
Leslie
Lesley Morden (nee Kuhnel)
Dear Mr. McArthur and family,
I was very saddened to learn of Lori’s passing. Although we hadn’t kept in touch after high school, I often thought of Lori whenever I visited my parents in Bolton. I remember Lori as a kind-hearted and positive person. My heart goes out to you, her family and friends.
My sincerest condolences,
Lesley
Carolyn and Alex Catania
Dear Glen, Geoffrey, Michael and David,
Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss. Someone so special can never be forgotten. Cherish her memory.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Carolyn and Alex
Gurmeet Gill
Dear Glen, Geoffrey, David & Michael,
Please accept my sincere condolences for your family’s loss.
Lori will be greatly missed by everyone.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this difficult time.
Gurmeet Gill
Dave, Cindy & Andrew
Dear Glen, Geoffrey, David and Michael,
We are forever grateful that we got to see Lori and say our goodbyes just hours before she passed. Cindy and I will always miss, but never forget her contagious laughter, and her beautiful welcoming smile, every time we visited your house or she visited ours. These moments are forever in our memories.
Love Dave, Cindy and Andrew
Patrika Daws
My dearest Lori and Family,
I have known you for so long. Lori, you have been my protector from our years at Darcel. It was a pleasure having you moved with me to Calderstone again as my secretary until your passing. I am going to miss the laughter we shared together as well as our stories. Every morning your beautiful smile greeted me and your and respectful salutation: Good morning, Mrs. Daws and how are you today?
Glen, Geoffrey, David
Lisa Aghoghovwia
I am deeply saddened about your loss and my thoughts and prayers are with you all. May you find strength in knowing that she lived her life to the fullest and inspired many people around her. She will be dearly missed in my memory of her.
Unjna Dattani
Dearest Glen, Geoffrey, David & Michael:
I am deeply sorry for your great loss.
I was priviledged to have met Lori at Calderstone. Lori was an outstanding colleague and friend, and I will sincerely miss her. She was always there for me whenever I needed advice, or when I had a thousand questions to be answered; she always knew exactly what to say to calm me down and let me know that it would be okay. I will forever hold her memory in my heart.
Lori spoke with such love and enthusiasm when telling me stories of the boys, and I hope you have comfort in knowing that she will always be with you, looking over you with her smile and cheering you on in all that you do.
Love, Unjna
Christina Woodhouse
Glen, Geoffrey, Michael and David,
My family and I are deeply saddened by your loss. Lori was a wonderful, loving, caring person who always brightened the day of everyone around her. I feel priviledged to have known her. Sincere condolences to your family.
Christina Woodhouse and Family
Mia Villella
My condolences to the family of Lori, I am so sorry for your loss. I had the pleasure of working with Lori during her time at Husky. She always had a beautiful smile and she would share that with others. Even when our paths would cross in town she always took the time to stop, say hi and catch up. I will keep Lori in my thoughts and in my prayers.
Patrika Daws
My dearest Lori and Family,
I have known you for so long. Lori, you have been my protector from our years at Darcel. It was a pleasure having you move with me to Calderstone again as my secretary until your passing. I am going to miss the laughter we shared together as well as our stories. Every morning your beautiful smile greeted me and your respectful salutation: “Good morning, Mrs. Daws and how are you today?”
Glen, Geoffrey, David and Michael you had the most amazing mother and Glen, a beautiful wife.
Peace be with you all,
Warmest regards,
Patrika
Nandita Dias
Dear Glen, Geoffrey, Michael and David,
You are in my thoughts and prayers. I have written a few words about how Lori touched my life. I hope my memories of Lori make you smile.
Lori was one of the nicest people I have ever met. We both had a common interest in music; the source of hers was her talented twins. She always took an interest in my singing career and encouraged me by inquiring about my performances. She also shared her sons’ demo with me and I was pleasantly surprised by the maturity in their sound.
Lori was the kind of person who wrote you a personalized Christmas/holiday card. I could tell she was a wonderful wife and mother from the way she spoke about house work and child rearing; she really cared about her family and the people around her.
Lori was a strong woman. She remained cheerful and vivacious in the face of the inevitable; I remember her visit to Calderstone; instead of being serious and somber like the rest of us, she was helping us to feel better, making jokes about her new, youthful hairstyle.
Lori was an awesome person and I truly missed, and will continue to miss, her presence at Calderstone. We have been lucky to have her in our lives.
Love,
Nandita
Patricia & Theresa O'Leary
Glen, Geoffrey, David & Michael
We are deeply saddened about the loss of your beautiful wife and mother. We have known the McArthur family for many many years and have great respect for the entire family. You are in our prayers during this very diffuclt time.
David Yaciuk
Dear Glen, Geoffrey, David and Michael
I am deeply saddened to hear about Lori’s passing. Her smile and warmth brightened everyone’s day. She always made me smile and her sense of humour, warmth and compassion was an inspiration. It was a blessing to have known her. She will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
David
Danny Shiel and Chris Ross
Dear Glen and family,
So sorry to hear of Lori’s passing. Our deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Sincerely,
Danny & Chris
Tony Borges
Dear Glen, Geoffrey, Michael and David,
I offer you my most sincerest sympathy and I wish you the very best. I too have had the pleasure of working with Mrs. McArthur since were we at Darcel and have to say that she was as caring of a person as I have ever met. She always made everyone and everything around her better with her laugh and smile. I was very impressed with her love and passion whenever she updated me on the progress of her talented and gifted sons and spoke of her family. She was always there to listen and help. I am very thankful for having the pleasure of knowing her.
Cheryl Karim
Dearest Glen, Geoffrey, David and Michael,
I am deeply sadden by Lori’s passing. I had the privilege of first meeting Lori at Calderstone. She was the first person I encountered on my first day. Her positive nature, warm smile and kind heart is something that I will never forget. She always had a way of bringing a smile to my face and was always there with advice, help and guidance. She was very proud of her boys and talked about them all the time. She was an amazing person. She will truly be missed.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Love,
Cheryl
Andrea Carnegie
Dear Glen, Geoffrey, David & Michael
It’s not often when you get to say how someone has touched your life in a special way. But that’s what Lori did. Lori was a beautiful person who has touched the life of everyone she came in contact with, including myself. I am deeply saddened by her loss but I know her memories will live on forever in the lives of all she has touched. Glen, my thoughts and prayers are with you and the boys at this difficult time and may you find sincere peace.
Sincerely,
Andrea
Pina Capicotto
Dear Glen, Geoffrey, Michael, David and family
Please accept my most heartfelt sympathies for your loss. I was able to go and visit Lori, when she was at Brampton Hospital. It was such a wonderful visit, what an amazing person. I walked into the hospital feeling sad and walked out feeling, what a great honor it was for me to have known Lori. I will certainly miss you here on this earth, but the love and smiles you left us will never be forgotten.
Lori and I worked together at Darcel. She always had a wonderful smile and made everyone feel welcome.
Softly the leaves of memory fall
Gently we gather and treasure them all
Unseen, unheard she’s ever so near
Still loved, still missed and ever dear
Please God forgive a silent tear
A constant wish that she were still here
Others are taken, yes we know,
But she was ours and we miss her so
Within our hearts, her memory is kept
To love, to cherish, to never forget.
Good my friend ((((HUG))))
Lesley Risinger
Dear Glen, Geoffrey, Michael and David,
When I remember Lori, the first words I think of are “sweet” and “gentle”. I loved the way her eyes crinkled when she laughed and her face was full of pride when she spoke about her boys and their accomplishments. No doubt, Glen, you will be sustained by the love you shared during your life together. Saying “good-bye” is difficult but only because she touched lives in such a lovely way. We can be very sure that there is now one more angel in heaven.
God bless you all,
Lesley
Toyin Adekusibe
Dear Lori, it was such a moment of silence, a deep sadness, a longing for one more day, one more word, one more touch, when I heard that you departed. We may not understand why you left this earth before we were ready to say good-bye, but little by little, I begin to remember not just that you died, but that you lived. And that your life gave people around you memories too beautiful to forget. It was such a wonderful time working with you at Calderstone.
Dear Glen, Geoffrey, Michael and David, may the comfort of God embrace you during this difficult time. Lori ‘s sense of humour, nicety, great team spirit, and selflessness will forever bring her memories anew.
Galina Matthew
Dear Glen, Geoffrey, Michael and David,
I am deeply sorry to hear about Lori’s passing. Her smile was so welcoming at any time of the day at Calderstone. She was a remarkable woman who always knew just what to say and how to help. I feel blessed to have known her and had the chance to work with Lori. I will miss her a great deal.
My most sincere condolences,
Galina Matthew
Monica Ewles
Dear Glen, Geoffrey, Michael, David and Family,
Thinking of you in your sorrow, wishing you strength for each tomorrow!
My deepest sympathy goes out to all of you. I am very saddened to hear about Lori’s passing. She was an AMAZING lady and I am very honoured to have known her since working at Calderstone.
Geoffrey, Michael and David, Lori always talked very highly of you and I know she was VERY proud of you all and all of your accomplishments! I got to hear a lot of stories about “The Boys” and know that she will always be with you in spirit, looking out for you in her own way!
Glen, I could always see that Lori loved you very much and know that she thought of you as a “Super Dad,” her exact words. I hope you can find peace and strength in knowing that! I don’t think that she will ever be far from you!
I always thought of Lori as a good friend and cared very much for her. Her motherly advice I will hold with me for the rest of my life! Lori had a caring way about her that simply made her nice to be around, and I think that is what I am going to miss most!
Lori, I miss you already! I wish I had still made it in to see you before you left us!
Love,
Monica
Rupi Sandhu
I was so sad and shocked to hear of Lori’s passing. I was privileged to have met Lori at Calderstone. She was a loving and caring person. Her wonderful smile and sense of humour will be missed dearly.
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time. Lori will be greatly missed at Calderstone.
Love,
Rupi
Stephanie Casey
Dear Glen, Geoffrey, Michael and David,
I was very saddened by news of Lori’s passing. My sincere condolences to you. I had the great pleasure of working with Lori at Calderstone. I remember her laughter, smiles, and her unselfish giving of her time. No matter how busy she was, she always helped me whenever I was looking for something or needed to get something. That was just the way she was.
Glen, in this time of sorrow look at your sons and remember they are her legacy that will forever keep her a part of your life. Remember all the great times you shared together.
God bless all of you,
Stephanie
Jan & Ray White
To Glen, Geoffrey, David & Michael,
We are both so saddened to hear of Lori’s passing and our hearts and prayers go out to you and Lori’s family at this time.
Lori and I have had a wonderful friendship since we all met 24 years ago. The miles between us made no difference to our closeness. I shall sorely miss our regular phone calls and emails; sharing family news or just day-to-day gossip and laughter. She was such a special person.
Our home is your home. You are like family to us. God bless you all.
Jan & Ray. East Sussex, England UK.
Vicky Ducharme
Lori is one of the sweetest people I know. The warmest of hearts and her super smile is what will be with me forever when I think of Lori. She always put others before herself and had open arms when you needed a hug. She was an early riser just like me and I always had a friend to talk with in the mornings at Calderstone.
Lori always spoke of how proud she was of her fantastic sons and Super husband which made me want to be a better mom and wife for my family.
She will be dearly missed but I know she will always be with you, Glen and her boys, Geoffrey, Michael and David in your memories and hearts forever.
From my family to yours…
All our love
Kazumi, Vicky and Derek Ducharme
Isaak Dyck
Lori is definately someone that I strive to be like. Her kindness toward all of the staff and students at Calderstone often astounded me. In situations where students would test the patience of anyone, I remember Lori handling these situations with a calm voice and gentle manner that no one else could. Chatting with her about her family and the perils of flying lessons with Geoffey, along with band appearances by David and Michael and the latest project at home that Glen was working on was something that always made her light up. She will be missed and will live within our hearts until we meet again.
Thoughts and Love from the Dyck Family.
Lawrence Moreel
I am sorry to hear about the passing away of your wife Lori, Glen. We had just run into each other barely a week ago in Bolton when I found out Lori was gravely ill. My heart goes out to you Glen, your sons Geoffrey, Michael and David and to all of your family and friends.
Lawrence Moreel
Dan & Nancy Shiel
Dear Glen and family,
We are very sorry to hear about Lori. She was a wonderful lady and will be sadly missed by all. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
With our deepest sympathy,
Dan & Nancy Shiel
Martha Eleftheriou
Dear Glen, Geoffrey, Michael and David,
I am deepley saddened to hear the news of Lori’s passing.
She will be greatly missed by everyone at Calderstone Middle School. Every day at work, her genuine smile and positive attitude touched me in so many ways. We would often sit together in the staff room at lunch and have wonderful conversations about our families. Lori always spoke about Glen and her boys with such love and admiration and her commitment to her family was a great inspiration to me.
I will truly miss you dear Lori.
Much love,
Martha Eleftheriou
Kim Malcher
Glen, Geoffrey, Michael, and David:
I was deeply saddened to hear of Lori’s passing. My thoughts are with your family at this difficult time.
Lori was a bright light at Calderstone; she welcomed everyone with her huge smile and caring demeanor. Lori’s positive attitude and love of life is something we can all learn from. She always spoke well of people and was extremely proud of her family – often sharing stories of the boys’ latest adventures.
Lori will be greatly missed at Calderstone, but we will remember her jovial personality always!
Love
Kim and family
Jack and Julie Wallace
Glen, Geoffry, Michael and David:
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with You at this sad time. Take care.
Sincerely
Jack, Julie, Christopher, and Amy Wallace
Harjit Aujla
Dear Glen, Geoffrey, Michael and David,
I was incredibly saddened to hear that Lori had passed away. Lori was truly a mother to all at Calderstone – both staff and students alike. I had been so hoping that she would be re-joining us at Calderstone in the fall. She will be greatly missed by all those who knew her. Her contagious smile and warmth will never be forgotten.
My family and I will continue to keep Lori and all of you in our thoughts and prayers through this very difficult time.
Sincerely,
Harjit & Family
Aamer Zuberi
Dear Glen, Geoffrey, Michael and David:
I had the honour of being with Lori two weeks ago and it was very special for me. We laughed, shared some secrets but most of all she gave me some good advice about life. I have followed through with her words of wisdom and it has made me a better person today.
As you know, she put everyone before herself but most of all, she loved and cherished the four of you.
Lori is an example of an exceptional human being! Her smile, laughter, kind words and positive attitude will be with us forever.
Sincerely,
Aamer
Jyoti Dhillon
Lori’s family:
I am terribly sorry for your loss.
When I think of Lori, I always remember the first time I ever saw her at Calderstone Middle School; she was introduced to fellow staff as our “school’s mom”. How fitting a title for such a lovely person. She was a perfect person to greet staff and students as she exuded warmth and caring. Her smile and voice were truly our school’s gem. Lori’s motherly ways never seemed to fail, especially, when someone needed a listening ear. I remember how she provided me reassurance and a hug when I needed one.
When Lori spoke of her family she seemed to glow. She shared of their achievements and adventures they were pursuing with pride.
I will miss Lori and her mom-ness.
Jyoti
Dr. Kate Wharton
Glen, Geoffrey, David, Michael, and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Lori fought a valiant battle, we should all be so proud of her. Carry her strength and love in your hearts.
Lori will be remembered by many, I am so happy to have known her. Take care of each other, my thoughts and heart are with you.
Sincerely,
Dr. Kate.
valerie powell
Dear Glen
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
Lori was a great person, she was warm and easy to talk with, I remember the times we would walk at lunch and talked about our children. I am so happy to have had the chance to visit and prayed with her four days before she passed away. Lori you will be sadly missed by all.
valerie powell
Dear Glen
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
Lori was a great person, she was warm and easy to talk with, I remember when we would go for a walk at luch and talk about our children. I am so happy to have had the chance to visit and prayed with her four day before she passed away. Lori you will be sadly missed by all.
John, Elaine and Thomas Stock
Dear Glen, Geoffrey, Michael and David,
We were so sorry to hear about Lori’s passing. Lori was a wonderful addition to the 892 Snowy Owl Sponsoring Committee and Squadron.
Lori’s heart and dedication went into all the events we were involved in, while never losing sight that it was all for the Cadets. Loris pride in her sons Cadet and outside activities was obvious and well warranted.
We remember Lori as a kind, gentle person that was always a pleasure to be around, and as a Mother and wife to an equally pleasant family.
Our thoughts and condolences are with you.
Sincerely,
John, Elaine and Thomas Stock
Laurie Robinson
Dear Glen, Geoffrey, David and Michael,
My condolences on the loss of such a wonderful person. Lori was a beautiful lady, kind-hearted, thoughtful and giving. Her smile and cheerful conversations were always one of my highlights at work, and will be greatly missed. She never failed to proudly share stories of those she loved the most – you, her family – and was eager to hear and celebrate the sucesses in my life and others. Lori’s continued strength, despite her illness, was inspiring.
I pray that God continue to be with you as you go through this difficult time, giving you comfort when you need it most.
God bless,
Laurie Robinson and family
Kicia Abdur-Rashid
Glen, Geoffry, Michael and David,
Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss. I knew Lori for five years and I can honestly say that during this time I have never seen her flustered or angry. She always wore a smile even when most of us would have been overwhelmed by the volume of middle school kids rushing in and out the office. On several occasions I commented to Lori that I admire her patience and respect for the students. She truly was one of a kind. I know I speak on behalf of everyone when I say that she will be dearly missed by the entire Calderstone family.
To the family left behind, take comfort in the fact that she loved you all. You were her pride and joy.
Sincerely,
Kicia
Gail Bannister-Clarke
Dear Glen, Geoffrey, Michael and David:
I was deeply saddened to hear of Lori’s passing.
Lori’s smile and positive attitude always brightened my day. She was such an open person who was willing to share about the things and people who held an important place in her heart.
Lori will always be remembered and forever be in my heart.
Sincerely,
Gail
Phil , Audrey , Stephen , Erin Grant
GLENNY , JEFF . MIKE , AND DAVE , OUR FAMILY WOULD LIKE TO EXPRESS OR SINCERE SADNESS IN THE PASSING OF YOUR WIFE , MOM, AND FRIEND. IT HAS BEEN A GREAT MANY YEARS SINCE WE HAD GOTTEN TOGETHER , BUT MY WIFE AND I REMEMBER OUR GET TOGETHER S FONDLY. JUST REMEMBER WE ARE ALL HERE FOR YOU GUYS , AND ONLY A PHONE CALL AWAY ! WE WILL SEE YOU AT EGAN’S.
dahlia Battick
Glen, Geoffrey, David and Michael
My family and I are saddened by your loss. I will always remember Lori for her vey generous smile and caring personality. I will always remember her kind and gentle ways. I wil miss her.
Dahlia
Sandra Feare
A ray of sunshine her presence brought
and a winning smile among treasure her life taught
to all the lives she touched
A courageous battle she fought
She smiled, and smiled
that we will miss
It was not in vain
she will continue to live in our hearts as our memories of her unfailing will, must remain
Connie Critchley
Dear Glen, Geoffrey, David and Michael,
I was so saddened to hear of Lori passing away. I know how much she loved her sons and husband.
“When someone you love becomes a memory,
The memory becomes a treasure”.
Take care of each other.
Sincerely,
Connie Critchley
Audrey, Peter, Celina, Anthony and Mitchell Toenz
Dear Glen, Geoffrey, Michael and David
We are truly saddened about the loss of your wife/mother. Lori was an amazing mother and was duly proud of her sons. It was always the bulk of our conversations. To carry her love forward today and always will be her dream.
Sincerely
Audrey and family
Yachu Parmar
Dear Glen, Geoffrey, Michael and David:
I am deeply saddened to hear about Lori’s passing. It’s hard to believe that she is no longer with us, but her beautiful memories will stay alive in our hearts. Lori’s cheerful and charismatic personality touched each of us at Calderstone. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time.
Sincerely,
Yachu
Capt Dympna Purcell
I did not know Lori but I just want to say on behalf of 892 Snowy Owl RC(AIR)CS that we pass on our Deepest Sympathies to all the family.
Susan Barker
Lori’s smile is what I was always greeted in when coming to work at Calderstone. She was so kind, warm hearted, sincere, and caring. I definately felt like I had a mother figure looking out for me at work, always wishing the very best for me , and even guiding me through the world of dating ;).
I always enjoyed sitting with her and listening to her share stories about her family, espeically her boys whom she was so very proud of. I will always remember the way she lit up talking about them.
I was unable to attend the celebration of Lori’s life, and am deeply sorry that I couldn’t make it. I made sure to take time to remember her and participate in my own way. Lori will be greatly missed by all.
Sincerely,
Susan
Kiba Moy
Dear Glen,
I was very saddened to hear about Lori’s passing. While I know that words are only a small gesture of support, I want you to know that her spirit has touched many people’s lives as it has mine. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
My deepest sympathy and love to you and yours,
Mr. Moy
Sadia Khan
Dear Glen,
Lori was one of the greatest persons I have ever known. Her death is a huge loss not only to her family but to all her friends and colleagues too. May her soul rest in peace. Amin! May God Almighty give you and your family the strength to bear this loss.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, always.
Sadia Khan
Bunmi Omiyale
Finding words to describe Lori is a challenge. What can I say to portray her accurately?
Lori is an angel, a soft spoken lady always willing to listen and offer a word of comfort. She is an encourager, always smiling never angry. I remember the few times I was opportuned to sit with her at lunch time. Our discussion usually start with accolades for the boys in our lives, she has three and so do I; this is the most passionate and lively part of the chat. Thereafter, we talk about other trivial issues like entertainment, the history of Twins in Calabar, Nigeria etc.
Lori is positive about everything; she has a unique way of turning your tale of woes to story of hope.
I will keep Glen and the boys in my prayer. Adieu Lori.
Bunmi.
Tami & Lloyd McArthur
As you gathered for the celebration of our dear cousin’s life, the sun shone brightly on the Rocky Mountains to which she so wanted to visit with her family. We look at this as smile from above and message to us all that things will be okay. Our love and sincere condolences.
Vivilyn Lewis
To Glen & family,
I have known Lori only for only 2 short years. You have been so blessed to have had her for the years you shared. She has done it all, given us all. Her love and warmth are timeless and will last forever. Her loving smile and caring ways are treasures that will live on. I know it’s hard, but take heart! Cheer up and know that you were loved, and will always be loved by one of God’s finest treasures here on earth! And know that her genuine love for the world was fueled by yours.
I love you Lori, and will never forget you! Soo sorry I didn’t see you before you go! May God continue to bless you, even in Heaven, and your beautiful family, as you watch over them.
Vivilyn & family
Jas Parmar
I was deeply saddened to hear of Lori’s loss. I will always cherish the memories of the times that Lori spent with us at Calderstone especially listening to her sharing her stories about her three sons with love and pride.
I was not able to attend the celebration of Lori’s life but feel deeply sorry for not being able to attend it. Even though I was out of province but Lori was in my thoughts and prayers always.
Words cannot even begin to express my sorrow. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Lori Scott
Dear Glen, Geoffrey, Michael and David:
I am deeply sorry for your loss. Lori was always a bright, cheerful and friendly person. She always took the time to chat with you. Lori loved talking about her family and she was very proud of you. She touched many lives at Calderstone and she will be greatly missed.
With deepest sympathy.
Lori and Family
Egan Funeral Home
Hi Lori,
Thanks for the pleasant, caring and helpful attitude that you’ve always shown us. You will be sadly missed.
Isaac B.
Nora Hindy
Dear Glen, Geoffrey, Michael, and David:
I am deeply saddened to hear about Lori’s loss. Lori always had a smile for everyone. The amount of care she showed and gave to us will never be forgotten. She was always in the staff room at lunch time, and I really enjoyed talking with her, about everything from childbirth to taxes! She gave me very valuable advice that I still carry with me today.
My thoughts and prayers are with you, her family.
Nora
Glen McArthur
The family would like to thank you all for your warm, loving support these past few weeks. The number of condolences is awesome.
Lori was a special person, and her friendship and respect she gave to everyone, shows with all the feedback we’ve received.
I will print out these thoughts and prayers and place them in her memorial cabinet in our living room.
Thank You.
Glen, Geoffrey, Michael, and David
Chris Ho
Dear Glen, Geoffrey, Michael and David,
Lori was an incredibly warm and caring person who lit up the lives of everyone who walked through the doors of Calderstone. I will always cherish the laughter and stories that we shared. Lori was someone who inspired me to be a better person through her grace, sheer love of life and giving nature. You will be greatly missed.
Sincerely,
Chris & Family
Robert, Scarlet and Aubrey Moreel
Dear Glen,
We are deeply saddened to hear of the passing of your wife Lori.
We wish to extend our heart felt feelings for your precious loss and give our prayers to you and your sons, Geoffrey, Michael and David.
Sincerely,
Robert W.Moreel and family
Jeannie Silva
Dear Glen and Family,
I met Lori for a short time, I thought she was a great person.
I will always remember her, and you’re right Glen – my mom and her are probably catching up as we speak. Talking how beautiful the Bethell House was! My donations are also going there:)) My thoughts and prayers will always be with you! Take care, enjoy your boys. oxoxo
Peter O'Donnell
Dear Glen and Family,
I went to high school with Lori, and she was a wonderful, caring person.
My sincere condolences to your family.
Sincerely,
Peter O’Donnell
Anne Gage
Dear Glen and Family,
I have just learned of Lori’s passing. I went to Mayfield with Lori and I remember her as a kind and caring person.
My deepest condolences on your loss.
Anne Gage
Hilary davis
My condolences go out to you and your Family. You were the greatest and the best Secretary in the world out off all my schools I went to. You were the sweetest secretary ever and the best secretary at Calderstone Middle School. You will always stay in my heart and Rest in peace Lori Ann McArthur.
Love
Hilary <3